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‘Never go to sleep on an argument’: Perthshire lovebirds share secrets of 70-year marriage

Platinum anniversary couple Ray and Lorna Armstrong are both 94 and living happily at home in Blairgowrie.

Ray and Lorna Armstrong
Ray and Lorna Armstrong, both 94, are celebrating their 70th wedding anniversary on August 13. Image: Kim Cessford/DC Thomson.

The omens were mixed when Ray Armstrong first set eyes on the woman who would become his wife.

For him it was love at first sight. Lorna laughs that the process took a little longer.

But once their hearts were set on one another, there really was no stopping them.

And today, the Blairgowrie couple are celebrating 70 years of married bliss.

Ray and Lorna Armstrong seated on a sofa reading telegram with a photo of King Charles and Queen Camilla on the front.
Ray and Lorna Armstrong with their telegram congratulating them on their anniversary. Image: Kim Cessford/DC Thomson.

Both are aged 94 – although Ray is the “toy boy” by a few months, jokes daughter Allison.

And with her assistance, they are living well at home in the Perthshire town.

Their platinum wedding anniversary, on Sunday, will be celebrated with family.

Perthshire is where careers and family flourished

Blairgowrie has been a happy home for the couple, who moved there after Ray retired from banking in 1989.

They met at a dance and were married on August 13 1953 in St Gabriel’s Church, Heaton, Newcastle Upon Tyne.

Three children followed – Allison, David and Susan – and in 1973 Ray got a new job with the Bank of Scotland in Dundee and brought the family north from Darlington.

Ray and Lorna Armstrong on their wedding day.
Ray and Lorna Armstrong on their wedding day. Image: Allison Armstrong.

They settled in Perth, where Lorna worked for many years as a teacher, mostly at Tulloch Primary School, before retiring to Blairgowrie.

The Armstrong dynasty has now extended to four grandchildren and five great grandchildren and the couple were looking forward to catching up with some of them on Sunday.

Secret of a happy marriage? Ask the experts

There’s only one question everyone wants answered on an occasion like this though.

What is the secret of a long and happy marriage?

Ray and Lorna Armstrong.
Ray and Lorna Armstrong at their home in Blairgowrie. Image: Kim Cessford/DC Thomson.

For Lorna it’s simple: “Never go to sleep on an argument.”

And for Ray, it’s advice that all of us – married or not – would do well to follow: “Just be friends and respect one another.”

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